Contact: Jerone Davison, 707-435-8077, Jerone@spiritualfragrance.org, www.spiritualfragrance.org
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The low marital statistics in today's Church is not only off the hook but off the charts, getting lower every five years. Have we all fallen to the hype of Hip Hop, Pop and
Davison says that one of the reasons why he feels men don't marry is because most have grown up in single parent, illegitimate homes or bad marriage homes. Most have never seen a good marriage first hand leaving no desire for marriage. Marriage for most of today's men is nowhere on the list of life's priorities. This is a major issue and is growing uglier by the generation. Which is why the women in our Churches must be more demanding of a marital commitment from their boyfriends before sex? Challenge them to be responsible men by making them wait and make a decision. Premarital sex changes everything it changes his feelings about the woman which is why most of the time it's a hit and quite situation.
Secondly, most of today's men don't understand the spiritual or natural significance of marriage and the impact it has on our children thinking that marriage is only a piece of paper. This is where the Church comes in. We've got to preach about marriage. After all car registration is paper, a driver's license is paper covered by plastic, a receipt is paper etc and without most of these you would be consisted illegitimate just as illegitimate as shacking up and pretending to be married.
Lastly, the Fear Factor. Men have a fear of losing sexual excitement, thinking the more the merrier; they fear that one woman can't satisfy. Not knowing that sex in marriage is the greatest love of all because God's blessings are on marriage and marriage has the big three love, commitment and trust anything else is uncivilized. Marriage is a true gift from God and it's a shame to see it go to waste. "The Spiritual Fragrance of a Woman the Fragrance the Fragrance that Attracts the Right Man" can be purchased at www.amazon.com.